I am sure that all girls have checked mobiles of their sweethearths. Ok, I have to admit that possibly even all women. But I believe that most of them. For instance, all of my girls have done it previously. Last Sunday I met my female friends for ladies night. We had some drinks and couldn’t stop talking all night. one of us wanted to check if her partner is faithful to her, we were discussing the subject of checking boyfriends’ mobile phones for at least two hours. You might be wondering what were our main points. I may basically divide my girls into three types. There were 10 of us, everyone in relationships.
Consequently, I believe that we were rather good test group for typical sociological research. First of all, there are women which claim to never check their boyfriend’ mobiles. To be honest, I am not sure if I believe them. I mean – this can be true that they didn’t do it, but I believe that the real reason for such situation is ‘cause they had no chance to do it.What is more, there are women who did it just once and stopped doing it.
For example, my good colleague Elisabeth has checked her boyfriend’s mobile phone. Her purpose was to check whater he didn’t have another woman. She was searching for some messages from other women, or some erotic pics. What she managed to find was, for example, e-mail about truck wraps nyc and messages from his sister. After this experience, she promised herself that she can trust him thus never check his cell again. The third group was the largest one. It was created by girls who check their partner’ mobile on the regular basis. Some of us had found something previously.
Consequently, they believe that they really have right to check their partners’ mobiles all the time. Some of them didn’t find anything suspicious, but keep on doing this just to be sure. I believe that I belong to the 3th group. I know that it is not the reason to be proud of. Nevertheless, I cannot fight it. I feel much confident when I am convinced that my boyfriend is faithful. Some men and females may criticise it, but I believe it makes our relationship stronger.