Sometimes, I also believe in these set patterns. Nonetheless, deep inside I sincerely believe they are deceptive. And a short time ago I experienced small, seemingly meaningless situation that convinced me even more that men and women are so similar. And I want to present it to you.
A while ago I have spent the whole weekend repairing my favourite shoes and clothes, including my favourite dress and pullover. Nearly all my clothes are highly fragile. In consequence, I should wash them by hand with the purpose that they won’t lose colour.
Moreover, I have spent many hours working on tiny details of my skirts with my sewing machine. Later, I checked if each pair of shoes are quite clean and shiny. I polished them more than three hours! Could you believe in that? Right after my husband returned and noticed that I was still working on my clothes, he couldn’t believe it! He laughed at me that I spend entire day on so boring activity. This is not so strange if you consider that he wouldn’t even iron his shirt.
Last Wednesday my husband had to go for a business trip to NYC. When he returned I was interested how he had spent a free weekend. My husband just replied with the words “vinyl wraps nyc”. I had no idea what he was talking about. He explained that that was nothing else than changing the colour and overall look of his car. As a female, I was not able to think of the worst plan for the weekend. But when I was looking at my husband’s enthusiasm , I realized how much in common we have.